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erin's avatar

Never saw the movie or any in the series, but made the mistake of watching that scene on YouTube. It electrified my existing fear, and I now speed erratically around logging trucks, increasing my actual risk of being harmed while behind the wheel. 🤗 It’s worth noting that I’m also terrified of misters above restaurant patios because listeria can get freaky on your lunch.

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Shoshanna Schechter's avatar

I know that this isn’t supposed to be a parenting/adolescent development blog, but it’s hard not to comment without noting all the data we are seeing on the negative affects of making things (like jungle gyms) too safe for growing children. Our fear response is there to protect us and much of that beyond the instinctual is supposed to develop as we fall, bump our heads, and get back up. As such, I’ve noticed in my own “tail end of Gen X” life that specific situations that may have paralyzed me with fear in the past are now simply another inevitable bump in the road of life to overcome. Some of this new sense of calm, if I am being honest, also comes from the desire to not waste any unnecessary mental space on meaningless worry or “spinning.” Everything has a season.

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